My Break Up with Facebook

I’m breaking up with Facebook…for now. I wake up, immediately go to my phone, open the app and scan through every life event that happened while I was sleeping. I am on Facebook at work all day chatting with my sister. Then I find myself becoming distracted from actually doing my real work. I come home and check my Facebook while I am eating dinner. I. AM. ADDICTED.

I thrive from the social aspect of life and hate to be alone. Since my husband has been training, it has just been my daughter and I, and I have noticed my Facebook addiction has kicked it up a notch. I have found myself becoming jealous/depressed that my friends have their husbands home, while mine is away. I feel guilty for letting everyone know I have my husband back, when most of them do not. After coming to an understanding that I post too many pictures, too many videos, too many “no one cares” posts for the past 6 years….I am breaking up with Facebook.

I began to research how Facebook can affect your personal happiness. Research from EveryDay Health shows that there may be some health benefits from Facebook. Some ways that it can benefit your health are:

  • boosting self-esteem
  • strengthening friendships
  • help introverts socialize

But there are also health risks involved:

  • can cause depression
  • trigger eating disorders
  • cause issues with your spouse, partner, or friends

For most people, how or whether Facebook affects your mood, your health, or your marriage probably depends far more on your off-line well-being, activities, and influences than what you do when you log on.

So with all this being said, I deleted the Facebook application on my phone and temporarily deactivated my Facebook account. Peace Out Facebook…..

5 Responses to “My Break Up with Facebook”

  1. Natalie

    The irony struck me as amusing that there is a share to Facebook button right below this post, and that 14 people recommended this post on Facebook.
    I understand, I really do. I have thought the same thoughts. I like to think i am in control, although at times I wish I spent less time being ripped away from what I was doing/listening to/working on because the little notification popped up.
    Every lent I get so much more done because I give up FB and *gasp* Pinterest. But I am not quite there yet, as I rely on the support I get from friends and family I am not near or just don’t have time to see through happy and sad times and recently through finding a group on there of people all over the world that have the rare same health issue I do.
    “Moderation is the key” we frequently hear, and it is so true!!

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  2. Marylou Nagel "Prairie Power Mama"

    You go girl!! I did the same thing in August and I haven’t looked back. What a time-sucker! :-) I decided to deactivate after one-too-many negative posts…I was FED UP. It can be a great source of positive info, pics, etc, but it can also go the other way very quickly with lots of “Debbie Downers.” Now prepare to be inundated with calls/texts/emails asking why. ;-) Enjoy your newfound freedom!

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